The short answer
For a child under 13, link their parent-managed account to yours and set a parent PIN on their phone. For a teen, optionally link accounts and PIN-protect setting changes. Then lock down privacy, groups, unknown messages and calls, and two-step verification.
Step 1: Set up parent-managed or teen controls
- Under 13: parent-managed account. Link your child's account to yours and set a parent PIN on their device. You control contacts, groups and message requests. These accounts support messaging and calling only — no Meta AI, Channels, Status or ads.
- 13 and older: teen controls. Optionally link your teen's account to yours and use a PIN to gate setting changes. Loosening a privacy setting requires your approval.
Tip: Device controls — Screen Time on iPhone and Family Link on Android — are still an important extra layer.
Step 2: Lock down profile privacy
- Last Seen & Online. Go to Settings → Privacy → Last Seen & Online and limit who can see it.
- Profile details. Under Privacy, limit who can see Profile photo, About and Status.
- Read receipts and message timer. Review Read receipts and the Default message timer.
Step 3: Control groups and unknown contacts
- Groups. In Settings → Privacy → Groups, set Who can add me to groups to My Contacts.
- Block unknown account messages. In Privacy → Advanced, turn on Block unknown account messages. This is an anti-spam setting triggered by high message volume, not a blanket block on everyone outside contacts.
- Disable link previews. In Privacy → Advanced, turn on Disable link previews.
- Silence Unknown Callers. In Privacy → Calls, turn on Silence Unknown Callers.
- Blocked contacts. Review and add to Blocked contacts.
Step 4: Use Advanced Chat Privacy and two-step verification
- Advanced Chat Privacy. Advanced Chat Privacy is set per chat: tap the contact or group name, then Advanced chat privacy.
- Two-step verification. In Settings → Account, turn on Two-step verification.
What age is WhatsApp OK for?
WhatsApp's minimum age is 13 (the former EU age of 16 has aligned down to 13). Children under 13 can use parent-managed accounts.
Common Sense Media rates WhatsApp for ages 14+. Meta AI content controls are also available for teens.
Go further
- Instagram parental controls — Meta Teen Accounts and supervision.
- How to block apps on iPhone — Add Screen Time limits.
- Android parental controls — Add Family Link limits.
- Discord parental controls — Another messaging platform.
Frequently asked questions
Does WhatsApp have parental controls?
Yes. Parent-managed accounts for under-13s launched in March 2026, and optional teen controls launched on September 30, 2026.
Can I read my child's WhatsApp messages?
No. Messages and calls are end-to-end encrypted, so parents cannot read them.
Does Block unknown account messages block all strangers?
No. It's an anti-spam feature triggered by high message volume, not a blanket block on non-contacts.
Is Advanced Chat Privacy a global setting?
No. It's set per chat by tapping the contact or group name.
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