The short answer
Confirm your teen is on a Teen Account, then open Settings and activity → Supervision (or Settings → Family Center) and send an invitation. Once both of you accept, set a daily time limit and breaks, review contacts and topics, approve account changes, and consider Limited Content.
Step 1: Check the Teen Account defaults
Under-16s need a parent's permission to loosen Teen Account settings. Teens aged 16–17 can change some settings, but a supervising parent is notified.
- Private account. Teen Accounts are private by default.
- Restricted messaging. Messaging is limited to people your teen is connected with.
- Content filtered to PG-13. Sensitive Content Control is set to Less, enforced through a PG-13 standard.
- Sleep Mode and time reminder. Sleep Mode mutes notifications and sends DM auto-replies from 10 p.m. to 7 a.m., and a reminder appears after 60 minutes of daily use.
Step 2: Set up supervision
- Open Supervision. In Instagram, go to Settings and activity → Supervision (or Settings → Family Center). On the web, visit familycenter.meta.com/supervision.
- Send an invite. Tap Invite a teen, or your teen can tap Invite a parent. Both of you must accept.
- Add other teens. One adult can supervise up to five teens.
Step 3: Set time limits and breaks
- Daily time limit. Set a daily time limit for Instagram.
- Scheduled breaks. Schedule breaks for times when your teen shouldn't use Instagram.
- Review time spent. Check how much time your teen spends on the app.
Step 4: Review contacts, changes and content
- Review connections. See who your teen follows, who follows them, and new contacts.
- Approve account changes. See privacy, safety and account changes, and approve them for teens under 16.
- Review topics. See the topics your teen is interested in, including Meta AI topics.
- Turn on Limited Content. Choose Limited Content for a stricter filter that also applies to Meta AI.
What age is Instagram OK for?
Instagram's minimum age is 13, and Teen Accounts cover everyone under 18. Teen Accounts now also apply on Facebook and Messenger, and Meta uses AI age prediction to find teens who misstate their age.
Common Sense Media rates Instagram for ages 15+.
Go further
- TikTok parental controls — Family Pairing step by step.
- WhatsApp parental controls — Meta's messaging app.
- Snapchat parental controls — Family Center for Snapchat.
- How to block apps on iPhone — Add device-level limits.
Frequently asked questions
Are Teen Accounts automatic?
Yes. Teen Accounts are the default for everyone under 18, with protections on automatically.
Can my 15-year-old turn off Teen Account protections?
No. Under-16s need a parent's permission to loosen settings.
Can I read my teen's Instagram messages?
No. Supervision shows time, contacts, topics and setting changes, not message content.
How many teens can I supervise?
One adult can supervise up to five teens.
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