The short answer: Copilot is the AI baked into Windows — and unlike a downloaded app, your child runs into it just by using the PC: a taskbar button, often a dedicated Copilot key, inside Edge, and on the web. The thing most parents don't realise is that Microsoft opened Copilot to 13–18-year-olds in 2025, so on a teenager's account it's on by default — you have to switch it off, not on. It's genuinely useful for homework, but it's a general-purpose AI with the usual risks, and there's no single "off" button, so locking it down takes a few deliberate steps.
The age bit, first
Microsoft's general minimum for Copilot is 13, though it varies by country. Here's the part that matters in Australia: Microsoft's own rules set the statutory age at 18, which means an Australian under-18 should be on a managed child account inside a family group. That's actually helpful — a managed account is exactly what lets a parent control Copilot. Microsoft does add protections for 13–18 users automatically: it won't use their conversations to train its AI, won't show personalised ads, and applies extra care on sensitive topics like mental health. Good to have — but on by default isn't the same as safe.
Where it can go wrong
Copilot is a general AI assistant, so the risks are the AI risks, not stranger-danger. It can be confidently wrong — Microsoft itself reminds young users it "can get things wrong" and that AI is not a substitute for asking a trusted adult. It can surface or generate content that's over a child's head. And like any always-available chatbot, it's easy for a kid to lean on it instead of a person. Australia's eSafety Commissioner has warned that unrestricted chatbots can affect children's development and that some kids use them for hours a day; Common Sense Media rates general AI chatbots cautiously for minors and stresses supervision. None of that makes Copilot uniquely dangerous — it makes it a tool that needs setting up and talking about.
How to actually lock it down
Because Copilot is an app, an Edge feature and a website all at once, there's no one switch. In Microsoft Family Safety you: block the Copilot app (under the child's Windows tab), block other browsers so they can't slip around the filter, and in the Edge tab turn on the web/search filter and add copilot.microsoft.com to blocked sites. The catch worth repeating: Family Safety's web filter only works in Microsoft Edge, so blocking the other browsers isn't optional — it's what makes the rest hold. You can add a router or family-DNS block of copilot.microsoft.com as a backstop. The full screen-by-screen version is in the members Microsoft Copilot lockdown guide, which builds on the Built-In OS Controls section of the Ultimate Guide.
What I'd actually do
- Under 13: blocked, full stop — app, website and other browsers.
- 13–17: if it's a yes for schoolwork, lock it to Edge with the filters on, and decide deliberately rather than leaving the default.
- Every age: have the plain talk — it's for homework and curiosity, not feelings; it gets things wrong; check its work; and show me anything that feels off.
The bottom line: Copilot isn't a stranger-danger app — it's a confidence-and-reliance one, made trickier by being switched on by default and built into the OS in three places at once. Blocked properly with Family Safety and paired with the right conversation, an older teen can use it for school. For younger kids, it's a clear "not yet."
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The members area has a step-by-step Microsoft Copilot lockdown guide — every screen, in order — plus the complete app-by-app set in the Ultimate Parents Guide, a one-off $13.60/year.
Related: Is Apple Intelligence Safe for Kids? and Is ChatGPT Safe for Kids?. Back to Internet Child Safety.
Lock it down — start tonight
Mum's quick wins for Microsoft Copilot. Do step 1 tonight; the rest are in the members' guide.
- 1Put your child on a managed child account in Microsoft Family Safety (under-18s in Australia)
The rest of the Microsoft Copilot lockdown
5 more steps — every toggle, screen by screen.
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See the signsSources: Microsoft — Copilot age limits and parental controls; Microsoft — Block or unblock apps with Family Safety; Microsoft — Filter websites and searches with Family Safety; Microsoft — Copilot for Young People; eSafety Commissioner — AI chatbots and companions. Settings current as of June 2026.

